Monday, April 18, 2011

My world shrinks further and further

I left the house today for the first time in days. My original intention was just to do some grocery shopping. As much as I don’t want to go anywhere lately, a girl can only live on ramen noodles for so long. But before I actually made it to the store before I knew it, I was driving to my job. My former job.

I resigned today. After almost seven years I quit my job. It’s the right decision, I know it is. I can’t go back to work after all this. I can’t even see my own shadow right now without jumping to hide behind a piece of furniture. And I was a fool to even try to for these past few months. Who the hell can maintain a normal life like this? I should have started running the second I realized this was real. Maybe then they wouldn’t be dead.

I think my boss was relieved that I he didn’t have to fire me. We talked about all the times I’ve called out in the past few months, the multiple personal reasons I couldn’t share with him. At this point he thinks it’s all to do with the ex, is properly sympathetic and horrified that I’ve been stalked and hurt, but at the same point, I can see it. That look in his eyes of relief that I am about to no longer be his problem. 

We worked out a nice little package for me. I get to keep my medical benefits and salary for the next six months in exchange for signing a silly paper stating that I was not in any way shape or form coerced or pressured to leave because of my current “personal difficulties.” Months of terror, stalking, and murder from both natural and supernatural forces summed up with the words "personal difficulties". 

I can understand it though. Between my “changing behavior”, the habitual absences, and the now nearly constant presence of the police who suspect Tom might show up there, I’ve become a detriment instead of an asset. The only reason they didn’t let me go was because how would it look to fire a woman who had been stalked, kidnapped and etc.?

So there goes another piece of me. Since all this started I’ve had to give up my friends, my sleep, a good chunk of my sanity, and now my job. I may not have taken advantage of things as much as I should have, but I had it pretty good. I didn’t go out enough, but I had good friends. I wasn’t rich, but I made enough money to live comfortably. 

Perhaps I’m being ungrateful. I found some very special people in the past few months. But I can’t help it. 

I want my life back.

6 comments:

  1. Do not feel ungrateful. It is only natural. Though indeed thou hast made new friends, and perhaps had a life experience or two...I would agree that all our lives would be on the whole improved by a rewind - a steady job, a living family, an ability to have a picnic in the woods; though hopefully you do not want Halloran back.

    I believe there is a saying: if there wasn't a word for it, would we realize our masochism?

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  2. -hugs tight- Kay, you're a casualty of a war that doesn't exist, and there's no worse place to be. Meeting new friends by no means makes the loss of others okay, not even close. I wish there was more I could say, but there isn't. There's nothing okay about this, any of it. =(

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  3. You didn't start this Kay. Tom and the monster put you in this position. They can't take your home, and they can't take your heart. Keep it together. You can handle this.

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  5. STAY THE FUCK OFF MY BLOG YOU BIGOTED EVIL MOTHERFUCKER! HAVEN'T I BEEN TORTURED AND HARASSED ENOUGH? DO YOU THINK ITS FUCKING FUNNY TO COME TO MY BLOG AND MAKE YOUR NASTY HOLIER THAN THOU LITTLE COMMENTS? YOU ARE PROBABLY THE SAME KIND OF MONSTER AS MY EX THAT THINKS IT IS FUN TO TORMENT AND HURT A WOMAN UNTIL SHE CRIES AND BEGS YOU TO STOP! DOES IT MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A MAN? FOR THE LAST DAMN TIME, LEAVE ME ALONE!

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